Does size matter?

So right now I am in the process of writing a book review for the book " Size Matters". As I read the book, I tried to consider how the media has played into how we see a mans penis. Do we focus mainly on the size, because we are worried about our pleasure and our pleasure alone OR , is there a part of us that focuses on size because of society. With that in mind, you can kind of imagine what it must be like to be a male , and know that women are " literally" measuring your penis during a sexual in counter. In class last week, our professor asked a male student, what he would do if his penis was cut off. His response " I think i would actually rather be dead". At first , I thought he was being dramatic, but after listening to him talk, he truly didn't know what he would do with his life if he didn't have his "member". That is essentially what led me to this topic.

What do you all think? Do you think women are just as focused on a mans penis as the actually man? Does a man really define himself by the size of his penis?? And how does the role of media and pop culture play into " size" and if it actually matters!

Thats all. Let me know what you think!

AA